02 Feb I’m Multi-Dating!

If you’ve been following my blog posts,you’d know that I got out of my first real relationship summer last year(August specifically) and if I tell you I was heartbroken;best believe it. Its been a series of emotions after that and I went out with some couple people also but it was never intentional. In the sense that I went out with these people in order to drown my hurt and honestly it was so toxic for me cause I’m out with these people but I can’t really speak about how I feel,how my day really was,the level of crazy I think I’m at because I know they ask ‘how are you?’ but don’t really want to hear that. I had to be honest with myself in November,so I cut off talking to them. I knew what worked for me and decided to let myself heal from the pain I was feeling. One of the ways I felt was healthy enough for me to do so was to see the person who had caused it in the first place…so I agreed to meet up with my Ex and we talked about some major things. That discussion was honestly such a relief because after that I felt extremely okay;I had just let out major issues and fears I bottled up for so long and it felt good not just because of the natural relief that came with it but I was speaking to someone who I felt knew me to an extent,so it was comforting.

Fast forward to this year. I decided to start afresh and firstly by doing a cleanse-a sexual cleanse. I just felt like I was having sex with people I didn’t care about and also did not give two fucks about me and that needed to stop. I am not having sex right now but I also feel myself working up into that woman that’s whole enough to be involved sexually with someone.

I have been out with some guys and I like them all for different reasons. I know the parts of myself to share with each of them and I tell you that I feel so powerful. It is definitely less stressful and exactly what I need right now in my life seeing that all my energy is going into my career. I am having fun,good make out sessions,fun hang outs,food and great discussions/laughter…what more could I ask for??

Multi-dating has become a major part of my skin care routine honestly,and I recommend it especially for ladies. I however,hate the stigma that comes with it which is opposed to the praise a guy gets in the exact situation but I am all for doing everything that makes me happy and so should you.

Till next time;thank you for reading. Happy New Month and stay blessed.