22 Jan Happy New Year…Let’s Talk

Happy New Sweethearts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes it is a new year for us,considering that this is our first post of the year 2019 and I am so happy. I was really waiting for 2018 to be over(yes I’m one of those),I had a lot of things happen to me this past year that I needed 1st of January,2019 to clock real quickly…its kinda like the start of my makeover. I LOVE IT!,So once again…HAPPY NEW YEAR and thank you so much for sticking with me/visiting my lazy crazy blog.

So…let’s talk!

I was really conflicted about when to publish my new year post,what it should entail and what to title it too(yess titles are a big deal to me,to every blogger/content creator actually). Oh well,I settled for the obvious. I am not one to give motivational talks cause I really do need some serious inspiration/motivations myself but I think its only fair I tell you guys what steps I have taken and intend taking in order to achieve my 2019 goals.

Firstly,I think it’s right for people or maybe anyone who wants to see a positive growth or progress in their lives to have a theme word/phrase for guide. This year,I decided that I should ‘Live Intentionally’,so therefore I am going to make conscious decisions to drive me achieve all that I have planned out. With that said,I decided to do something a little extra compared to what I’ve done in the previous years-I created a Vision Board. When I tell you that I was so excited to do this,believe it. I made a vision board and hung it on my wall as a reminder of the most important things for me right now;I really had to make it so visible because I got overwhelmed last year when I tried handling a lot of things and dealing with other issues. I urge that you do something(doesn’t have to be a vision board;to each his own right?),so how about a weekly reminder set on your phone calendar maybe twice in a month…an idea huh,so get to it.

Secondly,I brought my friends on board. I do not have as much friends as you might think and honestly,I just told two of my precious damsels about my plans and we decided on a vision together for ourselves also. Telling someone that means a lot to you,provides a Checker. Who/What is a Checker? A checker is someone that reminds you of your purpose,or calls you back in line when there’s a deviation in your goal. In my case,I know what all my friends want and we walk together to achieve it(kinda like being a cheerleader) and as for our vision together-taking trips,wardrobe change,etc. Make sure you include realistic things,some fun as well and be ready to strengthen your friendship bond.

Third,Reading my Bible is slowly becoming a fundamental part of my day and although it isn’t so easy to believe in God especially when things are difficult,it is important you ask him to build your strength to that. I have had the most doubt about everything in religion but I still believe,not sure how to explain the contrast so I’d leave it there. What makes you feel like tomorrow is secure? Build your faith in that and keep it moving. My spiritual theme is ‘Do not panic Gold.God got you’ and I put it right in the middle of my vision board as a reminder that he controls everything that concerns me. You do not have to believe in God(although I think that’s the best way),I however would want you to believe in something for yourself,by yourself. How about believing in yourself for a start?. Have all the faith in the world that you can achieve or do it all and lets see how that goes.

Forth,take it a day before another. No change happens overnight(well except its a breakup,which we avoiding this year). So ease the pressure off of yourself and breathe;enjoy the journey. Don’t forget to only measure your accomplishments with just who you were yesterday,not by what I tell you,your neighbor or the worse social media, because you are doing just fine honey.

Alright,I’d put a pin on this right here. Remember to love however or whoever you want to,live however you want to live and be happy.

Much love and I wish you all a beautiful and prosperous 2019.