Date Night-With A Married Man

With the title of this post you already guessed where and what this is all about,I can also feel a little bit of judgement coming but hollupp okurr don’t be so hasty to fly.

I am one to live by rules. I am a little obsessed with perfection and when it comes to my dating life, I have a few that guide me and one of the most important is- Do not date ‘taken’ guys. You could never hear a story of Gold getting involved with someone’s Man or Woman;I ain’t that chick. Now I say this but how did I end up on a whole date night with a married guy? lmao.

We met on my way back from work. I have a scar on my left knee from an operation I had some years ago and his curiosity about it kicked off our conversation. It was after work hours and he still smelt good,he speaks really well and talked the entire hour we were stuck together. Of course we shared numbers after the ride and it began.

3 days later,he calls to tell me he was going to be around my neighborhood at 7pm. He said ‘get ready,I’m coming to get you’. I quickly ran out to paint my nails(I had been stalling on doing so,this was an excuse) and I had to look cute of course *wink. We got to seat in a corner of the first bar we saw,it was dark. I had a Short Black Dress on and a Denim Jacket cause I was feeling chilly earlier. Discussions about everything began, I had noticed his ring the first time we met and I see he still got it on today. I struggled within myself about asking what it meant,a part of me knew I’d be a little heartbroken if he says ‘yes’ to my question. These thoughts spilled out my mouth and all I wanted to do was take that moment back. He goes on to say that he’s engaged and getting married at the end of this month. In few minutes I got over it,especially when he said he hasn’t decided if he wants to have a girlfriend or not. Like dude, chill the fuck out…I am not even interested in dating an obviously single guy,why you flying to the dating card when you getting married in three weeks. Dude! lmao.

I’d tell you this though,I caught everyone’s eyes on us. He kept leaning in,if I didn’t know any better;I’d mistake him for my husband too. He however got me thinking about something,’What kind of a marriage do you want to have?’. I asked him- Are you not meant to be in love with the one you’re about to get married to? I mean I hope that my fiance and I are so oblivious about what’s happening outside our relationship(forever even) just because we’re so in love,that we don’t even think of being devious. Do you get me? I hope you do. I mean I’m not out here judging anyone for their relationship or anything but I have an idea of what I want my love and relationship to be like and also know that I don’t want anything short of just because we trying to be ‘woke’. You know another weird thing was,I reversed the scenario to him(like if his lady was out here with some other guy,how would he feel?) and he didn’t even blink,he said he wouldn’t be surprised. Some shady business I say.

Anyways,I had a fun time then headed back to my place just asking myself wtf just happened. Oh wait,he invited me to his wedding. What do you think? Should I attend his wedding. Leave your comment below on why I should be in attendance or why I shouldn’t attend his holy matrimony.