A Letter to Mayy

I had a moment with my friend few weeks back,so I wrote this and sent this to him and it really brought him out of his mood. I’m posting it up for all my lovelies and readers who are trying to get over a broken heart(for whatever reason);this is for you.

It’s times like this that I wish I could absorb the pain of those that I love and care about. I hate that I don’t know anything right to say to you,especially when you’re hurting the most. I’ll keep telling you to stop communicating with her entirely till you get yourself out of this emotional wreck. I think it hurts much to love someone so much  and then loose the person,however the worst part is having to fear daily that no one could ever replace them. Which is right,because there’s someone definitely better,but if we walk around everyday revisiting the pain,love,joy,anger and every other emotions we had with this other person we tend to loose a lot more than we had already lost. Your healing could be right in front of you and pass without you even seeing it,all because we’re reminiscing on what could’ve been,things we could’ve done right,etc. Now,i’m not just speaking romantically but in every other areas of life.

I don’t know how long your healing would take,couldn’t put a time,but like what I always say to you-You have to let your heart go through these emotions itself. Let your heart heal at the pace it has chosen to. This doesn’t mean wallowing in pain;its simply about giving it time to untangle and helping it do the same. I’m also tempted to send messages to a certain someone on some days and even do a whole lot more but I restrain myself cause I want more and better for myself or at least when I know am ready to handle discussions with him.

I have no tips or anything good to offer right now but i’ll always listen to your heart pour in hopes that it relieves your head from the crazy. Its okay to feel down. Its absolutely fine to be closed out on relationships and every other thing but you have to give your heart time and space to heal from that which is causing it pain. Keep your distance and stop any discussion you can’t handle with her because of the aftermath. It doesn’t matter how difficult,its all really for your own good baby boy(which is the most important). I really do care.

With Love,

Gold G.