30 Sep After SEX,what next?
I did something on Saturday I wasn’t proud of and it hurt me so much. I think it hurts even more because I have had the most blessed couple of days leading up to this new week and here I was,wishing I could take back the last couple hours of my life.
Oh well,I went to church the next day and aside thanksgiving,I asked God to take out the guilt that laid so heavily in my heart(I think it’s been answered because I feel something entirely different right now).
What did I do?
Okay,I had sex with someone I shouldn’t have.
Why did I do it?
•Because I can
•I felt a little pressured into it
I mean I think I may have wanted to have sex with him given time but I wasn’t ready to do so that day and here goes my good girl out the window as I came(if you’re going to do it,you better do it well and then cum).
Something else that hurt even more,was the fact that I felt guilty about it. Yes people,I’m still very much single! But why tf am I feeling so guilty?
Why tf does it feel like I just betrayed someone with my vagina? Oh my goodness,it hurts so much thinking about it and maybe even more trying hard not to (but I deviate).
After sex,what next?
I mean do we sing worship songs and regift our lives to Christ? Do we go out for lunch,dinner,or just cuddle?
I’ll tell you this though,he knew I had a ton of things going through my mind and one thing I’m sure of is;I do not see him the same way anymore.
Yes I’m a hoe and maybe even yes I’m leading the pack of ladies who loose interest in men after sex(it’s a thing,happened a number of times with me).
Prior to Saturday,I would smile so hard each time I got a message from him but now it’s a hard eye roll.
I just think,what now?
What do you want???
Isn’t this over already?
What in the world is left for us to talk about?
Could you please stop with the messages!!
So please,this is a genuine question- After Sex,What Next? Kindly let me know in the comment section cause I’m beginning to feel like I die each time I cum.
Mart
Posted at 23:18h, 30 SeptemberI think it’s cos there is no emotional attachment hence the void you feel after getting orgasms. You would definitely feel different when you have sex with someone you’re really into
goldgerryblog
Posted at 07:18h, 01 OctoberHi🥰
I really hope so
Evolve
Posted at 18:30h, 01 OctoberHmmm!
Evolve
Posted at 18:37h, 01 OctoberI think i have been here, but in my case, we didn’t go all the way. Just kisses and more kisses, with hands that didn’t stay one place.
Well, yeah, it did happen, nothing was the same. It wasn’t sex, but the what-happens(happened)-next?- has been a big mystery.
There’s no explanation, but i sense your reaction is exactly how she feels as well – even though i she tries to ‘pretend’ all is well.
Lemme stop here, my fingers are itching to type more. I don’t know what it is like for her, you, but for me, i probably have stopped bothering about it, and i am a more careful now!
Evolve
Posted at 18:39h, 01 OctoberI think i have been here, but in my case, we didn’t go all the way. Just kisses and more kisses, with hands that didn’t stay one place.
Well, yeah, it did happen, nothing was the same. It wasn’t sex, but the what-happens(happened)-next?- has been a big mystery.
There’s no explanation, but i sense your reaction is exactly how she feels as well – even though i she tries to ‘pretend’ all is well.
Lemme stop here, my fingers are itching to type more. I don’t know what it is like for her, you, but for me, i probably have stopped bothering about it, and i am more careful now!
goldgerryblog
Posted at 19:05h, 01 OctoberHey,this is so interesting.
I also believe it has happened to a lot of us,and what happens next becomes even more awkward when it isn’t addressed directly.
Evolve
Posted at 08:36h, 02 OctoberYes, probably has happened to many of us. I did try to find out what happened though, like, what’s up? But i guess it does feel like there is no point even trying to talk about it, just keep it moving, flow with the energy, too. I mean, since the next is goodbye to how we used to be, so be it then.
Whatever the case, life goes on. But the repercussion is, it is really difficult to repeat same in future, especially with another you care about because you are engulfed with thoughts of possible hollowness and deafening silence from her.
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Posted at 17:22h, 02 OctoberI think It’s more of an interest you have for the person.
Personally I don’t like big girls but if I’m opportune to have sex with them I go ahead but I will still regret having sex with the person irrespective of how I enjoy the sex.
goldgerryblog
Posted at 18:43h, 02 OctoberFirst of all, why’re you intentionally having sex with someone you’re not attracted to? That’s just another level
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Posted at 20:19h, 02 OctoberHave you ever eaten food that you don’t like?? You eat it because it’s the available and not because it’s the preferable. On the other hand, It’s better than masturbation.
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