Did you Cum?

Just in case you were wondering,the ‘cum’ referred to here is the sexual ejaculation gotten through sex or sexual pleasure.

Woman and man hugging in bed

Now that we’re clear on that I want to ask my ladies please how many times has this particular question been thrown to you by a guy? Did you Cum? I very much understand the caring part and need to pleasure/satisfy your partner but guys please could you stop with it already. Now most would argue that its more difficult for a girl to get to orgasm compared to a guy,which is true(sometimes),but I think that guys have used this so much as an excuse to not even put in the effort in satisfying their lady in bed;just because they thinking that she wouldn’t cum.

Woman and man cuddling in bed

I really do admire a guy that’s all for making his lady feel good and have a good time and oh boy how much I love to hear a man moan,talk to me or ask me how much I like it from him when we getting down but not so much of it after all. Because then I start to sense a little insecurity in your tone and consistency in questioning me. Most guys just ask the question ‘Did you cum?’,just to see if they could feed their ego and not really to improve or get better for their partners.

I mean you just made me fake moan for you just so you could relieve yourself,now you going to keep asking me if I came just so you could feed your ego?. NO. If you feeling like you ain’t putting it down right,then you probably ain’t putting it down right. Guys that could really fuck and do the nasty don’t need to consistently ask me If I did cum,cause one-They probably already seeing me spilling juice all around or two-I scream,bite,scratch and moan it out like ‘yesss i just fucking came’ or three-embarrassingly start crying(this has happened).

So did you Cum? Erm,no I didn’t man cause I always have to get on top and control everything just to do so Sir.

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  • deee
    Posted at 10:28h, 02 May Reply

    looooooool at the last paragraph.

  • Chris Onah
    Posted at 17:03h, 01 August Reply

    Beautiful writeup, the last paragraph summarized it all for a guy to understand what he has done while having sex. Guys, I think you don’t have to rush your dick in, try to raise her bar to like 60-70% ahead of you. With that, she will mostly cum before you.

    Sex is more enjoyable when both parties cum.

    • goldgerryblog
      Posted at 12:08h, 02 August Reply

      Hey Chris!

      I absolutely agree with you,sex is more enjoyable when both parties cum and the sooner we stop seeing it as a destination but more of a fun journey…we really wouldn’t get the purpose or better side of it.

      Thank you for your comment.

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