05 Aug What Is Love?

God forbid I screamed or commented ‘god when’ on someone’s post because I would rather eat grass but you know what I do instead? I question, what is love? Followed with watching those romantic videos like 20 times and zoom in and out of couples pictures because really God When?

Every time I talked about the kind of love I crave, I have people around looking at me like ‘girl, this is nuts, ain’t nobody out there gon give that to you’. However, I believe so much in the law of attraction and in the law guiding love, so therefore whatever I think and desire consistently becomes mine. 

I believed so much in this that I had to stop and actually breakdown what I needed in love and relationship and maybe more importantly, what about these couples had me crying God When.

Read more https://goldgerry.com/2020/06/28/my-first-short-story-escape/

Since the day I set out on discovering who I am, I realised that I crave love so much. If you’ve been a consistent reader of my blog, hell if this is your first time, you already get the drill. Love is our theme here. I love LOVE, so I crave it every day, I crave it at work, at my house, on the road, from my friends, in everything I do and most especially from myself.

Loving myself has been hard on some days, especially when I see those ugly sides I have, but I’m here every day working through it.

So if I’m going to be with someone, especially for a healthy relationship?

Here’s a little bit of what I expect and I bet you need it too.

I just want to see the beauty of the world through someone’s eyes.
I want a love that wouldn’t lie.
I want a love that wouldn’t be checking other people out in just 6 months of dating.
I want a love that wouldn’t make me accept the things that I know are wrong because I’m scared of losing it.
I want a love that wouldn’t threaten me or whatever we share.
I want a love that would love me through till eternity.
I want a love that wouldn’t measure if I’m worth being married to, based on whether I can or cannot cook, dress, clean, take on responsibilities, or me being spiritual enough.

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I want a love that wouldn’t laugh at me for not knowing some things.
I want a love that wouldn’t feel that he/she has seen everything in me and then there’s no need to impress me anymore.
I want a love that would make me happy enough to want to get married.
I want a love that wouldn’t be able to go to bed knowing that we are fighting.
I want a love that would be unable to go through his/her day without hearing my voice.
I want a love that’ll challenge and stretch out my mind.
I want a love that would inspire me and forever be my muse.

I want love to touch me places I never even knew I had.
I want a love that would keep me swimming in attention.
I want a love that would grow stronger by the day.

I want a love that we could sit in silence and not feel awkward.

I want to laugh carelessly and crack silly jokes

I want a love that wouldn’t care about friends perspective, parents perspective or anybody else’s but us

I want love to touch me places I never even knew I had.
I want a love that would keep me swimming in attention.
I want a love that would grow stronger by the day.

I need wild love.
I need a love that would make me sing my heart out

I want a love that could never embarrass me or make me regret giving my heart out.

I want smart love.
I want a never money ending love.
I want a love that wouldn’t compare me to anybody.
I want a love with acceptance.
I want love to heal me.
I want a love that is new all day.
I want cheesy love.
I want a love that would be so romantic I wouldn’t even believe it’s me it belongs to.
I need movie love.
I need fairytales.
I don’t pray for a prince, I don’t pray to be saved, I am just asking for love

Don’t come to me talking about marriage and settling down, I don’t want to hear that.

Talk to me about love. Tell me something sweet, tell me something real and true.

Tell me love stories and people’s experiences with it because that’s all I want.

Need to read more on what love is, check this out https://www.helpguide.org/harvard/tips-to-improve-your-sex-life.htm