23 Apr True Colours

It used to be so shocking to have someone’s true being revealed to me in the past but right now,I just take it like a G that I am and move on. Maybe its my level of self-awareness, and intolerance for crap that causes me to pay no mind to people’s misbehavior. For this post however,I just want to point out people’s crap from a certain angle and gender-BOYS. I call them boys because,Men in my belief would not act this way.

As a girl,especially when you hit a particular age you just begin to see through guys. You read the underlying approaches in their compliments,you know the ones that are coming from a genuine place,the corny ones,the possessive ones and then the ones out-rightly coming for the cookie. Which isn’t all bad,depends on the approach. The most irritating of it is when a guy chooses to play himself thinking I’m getting played. You know,the ones that always think they’re smart. The smart ones are those thinking that they could ask two friends out in the same clique and not expect to get busted or any of them know about it. The ones that would take you out and when driving back say that they left something in their houses(just so you’ll go to his place). These are the ones that will invite you to travel/come see them(when you’re just on your own o)-they’ll volunteer to take care of the trip fare,feeding,accommodation and what not and be thinking that you’ll just open leg for them(like oga,did I send you work. I was on my own o). These are the ones I call double face.

These guys will show you all the good time just to get to your panties,call you the sweetest names heaven hasn’t even thought of and then when they see that you’ll never fall for their lies;their true colors fall out. Hahhaa. This is where lines like-Sigh,your not the most beautiful girl in the world sef why are you acting like this? Your pussy ain’t even special sef,abi there’s gold there? Or, so,I was spending all these things,taking you to all these places and you’re telling me I wouldn’t get anything back? Bro if you need anything back,i’ll transfer the money you spent back to you,stop making a fuss. As ladies we should never ignore side comments like these or when a guy starts guilt tripping you into thinking that you owe him something-‘You Don’t Owe Him Shit!’ Okay?.

Sex isn’t a reward for goodness. Sex isn’t a payment value for transactions. Sex shouldn’t be given just because you acted humanly or gentle to a girl. No Vagina is a POS or an ATM  express to be dropped every time a compliment is given.

If you go out of your way to buy me nice things or take care of me,go out to eat,have a laugh or two,it is never guaranteed that i’ll be having sex with you at the end of day. I’m hanging out because I want to hang out and if you don’t want to pick up the bill-that’s fine too,I’ll just do it myself(pay for my half,on days I decide to be petty) or I could just seat my pretty self at home. No problems needed,given or ever taken. I am sick and tired of guys feeling entitled to a body part that ain’t even theirs. So if I go out with 5 guys in a week,all five of you should go inside me just because you took me out? Silly!. I just so love it when a guy shows me his true colors and I don’t even bother to stress myself with talks anymore,its like Byee!